10.25.2010

Mike, Joni, and Miles in Budapest

Well, we have had back to back visits from family. Mike, Joni, and Miles arrived the night before Julie flew back to the states. It was fun to have them all here at the same time, even if it was just for an evening. We had an awesome time with Julie and would have loved to have her stay!

Dennis and I have seen some Budapest sights for the first time while out and about with Mike, Joni, and Miles. We took in a one-day trip to Vienna by train, and now we get to have some "Miles time" while Mike and Joni have some "just us" time in Rome. 

Some out and about photos, but mostly of Miles :).

A walk along the Danube to see the Jewish shoe memorial. 


 Cast iron shoes in honor of the Jewish victims shot into the Danube during World War II.
Miles loved watching for the tram to come down the tracks. This was the look on his face when he saw it coming.
On the train to Vienna.
I'll take these pigeons over Saint Stephan's Cathedral in Vienna any day!
Bedtime story "Grandma and Me"

10.17.2010

Running Together!

Julie, my friend Olga, and I ran the Coca-Cola Women's 10K (6.2 miles) Run today. What a blast, and what a beautiful run through the City Park, through Heroe's Square, and down Andrassy Avenue. Dennis did his own run, catching us at different points on the course to cheer us on and take pictures. How fun to have Julie here to experience this run with me!
The running trio, though we all separated to run our own race just after crossing the start line.

Julie (center in blue t-shirt) entering Heroe's Sq. - I ran through this spot about 10 minutes later :).
A smile for the camera as she stays strong in the second half.
Too focused to smile at the camera. 
About to cross the finish line. Reached my goal of finishing in less than an hour.
Afterward we soothed our muscles at one of the 50 thermal baths in the city.

10.14.2010

Julie is Here!

What fun having Julie with us in Budapest, our first family member to see our place and city. Jules arrived this afternoon and we took her out on this beautiful evening to show her the views along the Danube. We are so excited to spend these days with her.




10.08.2010

Real People Who Lived History

I've said this before since we've moved to Europe, and I will say it again. It's fascinating to hear real people tell stories that I've only read in high school history books or tried to imagine when viewing a place that marks European history.

Father Placid is one of those real people. At the age of 94 his mind is still sharp and his humor delightful.

Last weekend Dennis and I had the privilege of meeting Father Carl Olofsson, or Father Placid (the name given by his order of St. Benedict) in his 3rd story flat, the same flat he and his sister were raised in. Two hours later I had pages full of notes.

Father Placid was unable to finish his Benedictine schooling due to his arrest by the occupying Soviet Communist police in the spring of 1946.

He recalled entering what is now a museum in Budapest aptly called the House of Terror, once the former headquarters for the secret police of both the Nazi and Communist governments. The secret police terrorized, tried, deported, or executed anyone suspected of being an enemy of the state. Studying to be a priest was considered one of the Soviet penalty codes.

"Once anyone entered the threshold of this building, they were no longer a human being. If anybody wanted to kick me, they would." He spoke of night interrogations. Two spotlights zeroed in on his naked body, except for the sandals on his feet, while slanderous statements were meant to break him down.

He raised his hands in the air and with a triumphant voice declared, "The Soviet Union did their best to ruin me, but where is the Soviet Union today?"

He couldn't sit down in his private cell. He'd take one step forward, then one step back, and kept praying, and praying, and praying. "The Soviet Union made sure to send messages of insecurity to the prisoners. . . never knew when they would be shot in the head, legs amputated. . . they didn't want to be heroes, or martyrs, they just wanted to survive their hell. What did we have to do with the Soviet Union?"

He was sentenced ten years to a Russian Gulag in Siberia. He explained that Gulag is an acronym for The Chief Administration of Corrective Labour Camps and Colonies. It was there that he learned to find joy and blessings in an incredibly difficult place. He had four focuses that helped him to get through these years, and he encouraged fellow prisoners to do the same.

His survival guide:
1.  Never complain. Don't dramatize our suffering because it will only make us weaker.
Instead of complaining Father Placid encouraged the prisoners to talk about their professions. He grinned when he mentioned how much he learned about other professions.
2. Suffering comes automatically whether you want it or not. Watch out for the little joys.
"That's the art of life," he said when he described finding extra pieces of cabbage in his daily ration of soup, or when a guard didn't make him take his hat off in -15°C (5°F) temperatures during the daily searches. The prisoners made a contest out of this survival practice. After dinner each night they would count all the little joys of the day. Once a prisoner shared 16 joyful discoveries and exclaimed that he didn't have time to suffer that day because he was so occupied keeping track of his 16 joys. A favorite song was sung to the one with the most joys for the day.
3. We are all men, guard and prisoner alike, but we can show the guards that we are a different kind of men because of Jesus.
He shared how he and fellow prisoners volunteered to work for a factory owner who had a contract with the labor camp to meet his government quota for his business. The man was shouting obscene words, cursing that somebody was out to ruin him because he wasn't going to make his quota. Even though Father Placid and other prisoners were exempt from this work due to their soon release, they chose to help this man anyway so he wouldn't get in trouble.
4. We cannot leave God out of the things of life. God must be included.
He explained how Jesus was his source of strength, and how that helped him to be a source of strength to others. “It was very hard for me at first because I didn’t know my purpose. But soon God let me know that I was there to help the other prisoners, and my attitude must give them hope. Before this I would often cry; afterward I tried to remain happy for the sake of the others."
When Father Placid was released after ten years, he weighed a mere 86 pounds. Because Hungary was still under Soviet rule, he was stigmatized upon his return, constantly watched by the Communists. No longer able to fulfill his role as a priest, he was given manual labor in a hospital laundry where he soon became the director for the next 20 years.

He smiled when he told us that he retired 34 years ago. He continues to be active in the life of his church. Our visit was on a Saturday evening, and at 9:00 he looked at his watch indicating that it would soon be time for bed. There was mass the next morning at 8:00 and confessions to follow.

Father Placid... a real man who lived real history, but more than that, a man who overcame the darkness of his world with a faith that would not let go and a joy that would not cease. He cheerfully declared, "No suffering can ruin the joy of the Gospel in my life."